Chuong
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Tinh yeu thuong
Trang cu(>c song hang ngay, chung ta rat it khi khen
ngqi Ian nhau. Hay thu quan sat cu(>c song hon nhan cua
b(:ln ma xem. 0 nha, vq ch6ng b(:ln c6 hay khen ngqi Ian
nhau khong?
Trang m(>t bu6i h(>i thao danh cho cac c<)p vq chong,
ngudi ta da tien hanh mot cu(>c thu nghiem. Ngudi chu
tri h(>i thao yeu cau nhung ngudi tham gia viet ra 1 5 dieu
tot d�p ve ngUdi b(:ln ddi cua minh. Khi ngUdi dau tien
viet xong 1 5 dieu thi van con rat nhieu ngudi chua viet
duqc gi.
Thong thuong chung ta it khi nh?n ra va hau nhu
khong ngqi khen uu diem cua nhung nguoi xung quanh.
Tuong tu, chung ta cung it khi nh?n ra va ngqi khen nhung
uu diem cua con cai. D6 chinh la diem tro ng�i trang
nhieu m6i quan h¢. Cu(>c thu nghiem nay duqc thuc hien
nham giup cac cap vq chong nh?n ra viec khen ngqi Ian
nhau se giup lam sau sac them tinh yeu giUa hai nguoi.
M(>t nha tam ly hoc da ttrng n6i:
"V1¢c nu6i dQ.y con chclng c6 gt kh6 ca. BQ.n chi can biet
each khen ngoi con minh. Tat ca mQi thu deu phu thu<)c
vao dieu nay. Neu cci.c con cua bQ.n giir j
tzJ:
khi an u6ng
thi
hay khen ngqi chung. Neu chung ve duqc m¢t hue
tranh thi hay khen ngay. Neu chung giup bQ.n dQn d�p
nha cua thi dirng chan chic n6i nhimg lai khen tQ.ng. Day
la dieu duy nhat ma bQ.n can lam".
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