cung
co khi chinh nguoi than nhu chong hoc)c vo
cung
la m¢t phan van
de
m
a b�n dang gc)p phai.
BC:ln
be than thiet cung co the la mt)t nguoi h6
trQ
dac lt;lc.
Khi
b;.\n cang mo long ra voi m9i nguoi
thi
moi nguoi cung se tien den gan b�n hon. Khong
can thiet
phai to diem cho ban than,
SlJ ton tc;ii cua
nguoi
b;.\n nao d6
ma
b;.\n c6 the an tam tro chuy
¢
n
se
khien ban tro nen manh me truoc bat cu thu thach
.
.
nao.
Nhung nguoi c6 the giup b;.\n khong chi c6 b�n
be ma ca nhung nguoi co chuyen mon, nhung nguoi
tu van
se luon lang nghe nhung lo lang, kh6 khan
cua
bc;in, va cling b;.\n suy nghi huong di.
Co
nhie
u
nguoi cho rang chi nhung ai dang gc)p
phai van de ve mc)t tinh
than thi m6i tim den nguoi
tu van
de c
hia se, boi
vi c6 the hQ xau ho khi n6i
chuyen do voi nguoi khac. Hay nho
SlJ xau h6 ay
la
khong can thiet. Vi�c tiep nh
�
n
S\1 ho trQ va tu
van
de
ban than tien bo nhanh hon
se chi c6 hieu
.
.
qua t
i
ch
ClJC chu khong c6 gi la xau ca. Con hon la
b�n va con b;.\n dong
kin long minh voi m<;>i nguoi
de m�c van
de tram trong them, do m6i la dieu
phai suy nghi
.
Vi
the cha m� hay tich
cue tham gia
nhung
bu6i h(>i thao ve tu van nuoi d:;iy con, tha
m
gia v
a
o
m�ng luoi h()i
lam
cha m� hoc)c h(>i phl).