Tommy’s essay
Soon Tommy’s parents, who had recently separated,
would arrive for a conference on his failing
schoolwork and disruptive behavior. Neither parent
knew that I had summoned the other.
Tommy, an only child, had always been happy, cooperative, and an excellent
student. How could I convince his father and mother that his recent failing
grades represented a brokenhearted child’s reaction to his adored parents’
separation and pending divorce?
Tommy’s mother entered and took one of the chairs I had placed near my
desk. Then the father arrived. They pointedly ignored each other.
As I gave a detailed account of Tommy’s behavior and schoolwork, I prayed
for the right words to bring these two together to help them see what they
were doing to their son. But somehow the words wouldn’t come. Perhaps if
they saw one of his smudged, carelessly done papers.
I found a crumpled, tear-stained sheet stuffed in the back of his desk.
Writing covered both sides, a single sentence scribbled over and over.
Silently, I smoothed it out and gave it to Tommy’s mother. She read it and
then without a word handed it to her husband. He frowed. Then his face
softened. He studied the scrawled words for what seemed an eternity.
At last, he folded the paper carefully and reached for his wife’s outstretched
hand. She wiped the tears from her eyes and smiled up at him. My own eyes
were brimming, but neither seemed to notice.
In his own way God had given me the words to reunite that family. He had
guided me to the sheet of paper covered with the anguished outpouring of a
small boy’s troubled heart.
“Dear Mother… Dear Daddy… I love you… I love you… I love you.”
- Jane Lindstrom
