re cua van de va de giai quyet nhfrng van de d6, ho m� can
quan tam den tre & nhfrng khia c�mh khac, khu V\fC "chat
lm;mg hQc", khu V\fC "quan h� v&i bc;in be" ... Trong nhfrng
khu V\fC do, S\f tang nghe, hoi han, trao doi de hieu van de
va giup con giai quyet van de ... m&i la chia kh6a.
Va nhu chung ta deu biet, lam guong cho tre la each
dc;iy hfru hi�u nhat. Chinh bc;in da doi di�n the nao v&i that
bc;ii? Gia su bc;in ding bi nga tren du<Yng dua c<Y cho con.
Bc;in lam gi? Bc;in gifr tay & vet thuong va kh�p khieng di den
dua c<Y cho con? Dua tre da hQc duQ'c tam guong gan giii
nhat ve
VU'Q't
len kh6 khan va tiep tl,IC co gang. Bc;in cam thay
vet thuO'ng qua dau va quyet dinh phai dirng tro chO'i, vi
tiep t9c co gang se cang nguy hiem? Dua tre se hQC dU'Q'C tir
bc;tn rang vi�c dtrng dung luc la het SUC can thiet.
Tat nhien dCri th\fC khong dO'n gian nhu an d9 ve tro
chO'i "chc;iy tiep sue" nay. Trong CUQC dCri th�t, dua tre lien
t9c bi anh hmmg b&i each bo m� song, bo m� suy nghi va
hanh d<;mg. Chinh vi v�y, l<Yi khuyen quy bau nhat cho cac
ong bo ba m� la lam guong cho con.
Dung tir lam guong & day khong c6 nghia la ke tir ngay
mai, bc;in phai thay doi hoan toan, phai thanh con ngu<Yi
hoan hao, de con noi theo. Khong! Hay chi thay d6i nhfrng
gi bc;in thay can thay doi. Va hay song trung thi..rc nhu chinh
bc;in, v&i tat ca gia tri, niem tin cua bc;in tir tru&c den nay.
M9t co bc;in toi ke: "M� t& quan h� rat r{mg nen nhieu
khi c6 vi�c gi can, t& c6 the nh<Y m� gi&i thi�u nguCri de t&
trao doi", Va CO ay h9c dU'Q'C tir m� gia trj Cua Vi�c g�p g&, lam
quen, gifr lien lc;ic v&i mQi nguCri. "M� t& rat gioi ve y dU'Q'C,
m� chju kh6 c�p nh�t thong tin b�nh tinh, thuoc thang de
ca nha an khoe, song khoe!' Co bc;in nay lc;ii h9c dU'Q'C tir m�
