buon. Sau Game night, m()t c�p VQ' chong My ch& toi va Josie
ve. Ong Mike chQ't noi: "Henry horn nay trong co ve khong
vui lam." Ba Sarah tra loo: "Luc m&i dau thay c?u ay kha tinh
tao". Toi hoi them thi dU'Q'C nghe ong ha ke them ve Henry,
c?u ay bi Down tir khi sinh, va ho m� c?u ay da co gang het
sue de c?u ay hoa nh?p dU'Q'C nhu hi�n nay. C()ng dong ding
het sue than thi�n nen Henry co dieu ki�n tot de ho?t d()ng
gan nhu m()t nguOi binh thuemg. Nhung tat nhien, van co
cac tinh huong lam cha c?u ay bi thu minh tr& l?i. Luc nay,
Josie that len: "TrOi
cri,
v?y ma toi da khong de
y.
Toi cu co
gang thang roi con treu c?u ay nfra. Toi th\fC co 16i qua:' Ong
Mike chi binh than noi: "Khong sao, Josie, co m&i biet dieu
nay nen khong sao, ding tot
gi&
co da hieu them ve Henry."
Ve sau nay, toi co lam cha m()t d\l' an tim cac CO' h9i
vi�c lam cha nhfrng nguOi mac cac b�nh nhu Down. Trang
nhfrng Ian tro chuy�n, nhfrng nguOi b�nh ay deu noi dO'Il
gian ma r6 rang rang "h9 muon nhfrng cong vi�c nao ma h<;>
CO the lam tot", "dU'Q'C khach hang cam kfch gia trj cong vi�C
h<;> lam", "cong vi�c co
y
nghia", "muon khi di lam duQ'c g�p
b�n be va dmg vui cum" ... Va toi chQ't nh�n ra, th?t ra do
ciing chinh la moi tru&ng, tinh than ma chung ta, nhfrng
nguOi binh thu&ng, ding mong muon va phat trien tot nhat.
Nh�n di�n ho
m�
"tr1,l'C thang" va ho
m�
"si quan
chi huy"
Trang cuon sach
Parenting with Love and Logic,
hai tac
gia
Foster Cline va Jim Fay nhac t&i hai phong each nuoi d?y
con kha ph6 bien la kieu "tf\l'c thang" va kieu "si quan chi huy".
Bo m� "tf\l'C thang" (helicopter parenting): Nhu m('>t
chiec tf\l'C thang, thay con bat CU khi nao CO the g�p n?n la
