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gim'rng minh. Toi khong ng?i vi�c d6 vi be con vao gim'rng
la toi l?i ngli tiep dU'Q'C. Con Xoai thay dU'Q'C vao v&i b6 m�
la sung smmg lam roi, nen nam xu6ng ngu luon.

Khi dQC den day, b?n se cu&i:

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ho, d?y con ngu kieu

My kieu nl:ra v&i sao ?" Rat nhieu ba mt;> khi hQc ly thuyet
sleep training thi cam thay that v9ng khi con v�n khong
ngli duQ'c xuyen dem nhu minh mong muon. Co Christine

Gross-Loh, tac gia cuon Parenting without borders, c6 dua

ra m9t cong thuc rat dung rang "St,r phu hQ'P gifra mong
muon cua bo mt;> v&i tinh cach/th6i quen ngli cua tre

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St,r

nghi ngoi tht,rc Sl,f cua ca gia dinh". Dung v�y, m6i bo

ffit;'

l?i

c6 nhu cau rieng. Ngu&i chiu OU'Q'C tieng kh6c cua con trong
giai do?n dau sleep train. Ngu&i khong chiu duQ'c. Ngu&i
muon c6 th&i gian rieng cho minh. Ngu&i muon m6i dem
dU'Q'C danh toan b9 th&i gian cho con. Ngu&i muon ngli
thang giac. Ngu&i l?i muon trong dem c6 the om con vao
long, hit ha, v6 ve con. Ngu&i luc nao ding

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tr?ng thai

"nl:ra tinh nl:ra ngu" nen khong SQ' de tay phai con. Ngu&i
thi luc ngu chang biet treri trang gi, g?t tay vao con ma cling
khong biet, nen SQ' nguy hiem cho con.

Sau hOTI m9t thang ngli chung v&i con kieu nay thi toi

thay nhieu diem

d&.

Giu&ng ch�t nen ca nha khong ai dU'Q'C

ngu thAng gia'.c. Xoai ngil dem nam quay lung tung. ChAng

hieu sao con be thich nam ngang giu&ng thanh ra cai giu&ng
ch�t l?i cang them ch�t. Hom thi n6 d?p chan vao lll'Ilg, roi
m�t bo lam bo khong ngli OU'Q'C, horn thi day mt;> di di di vao
tu&ng. Ban than Xoai ngli cling khong yen

vi

bo mt;> ct,ra qu�y

nen Xoai thinh thoang l?i kh6c toeing len. The la toi quyet

dinh khong cho con ngli 15' c<Y luc dau ngli cfii,

h'.J.c

sau ngli

v&i bo mt;> nfra. Lan nay la ve clii han. Ly do toi ng?i ngan