nhanh roi ve nhtrng cfing khong phai thanh thoi nhtr chi c6
ngm'ri l&n v&i nhau. Chinh vi v�y. chinh sach cua cac ha m�
My la mQt, ch9n quan an "kid-friendly" tuc la khong trjnh
tr9ng qua, hai, khi t&i noi thi nhanh ch6ng gQi m6n ngay de
thuc an se ra s&rn (m9t dua tre vira d6i vira buon chan thi
se thanh tham h9a!), ba, hQ thuemg mang theo m9t cu6n
sach de trong
h'.tc
d<;ri thuc an thi dua tre c6 tro tieu khien.
N6i them ve thai d9
"I
am the chief", ba m� Phap
chi can nghiem gi9ng, lir mat, va nhu Pamela ke, c6 ca
"spanking" (danh vao mong tre), khien dua tre SQ', Va nhtr
v�y chung tl,l' biet "minh phai biet each Clf xl:r''. Chu ba m�
Phap khong can phai giai thich hay thtrO'ng ltr<;rng gi v&i
b9n tre. Trong khi d6, each lam cua ngmJ-i My thien ve
giai quyet van de va thtrO'ng ltr<;rng. Catherine Crawford,
tac gia cu6n French twist, cho rang, m9t ly do ngu<ri My
khong nghiem khac v&i con nhu ngu<ri Phap la vi hQ SQ'
con bj cam giac b6 bUQC, tu do mat kha nang sang t�O Va
vtrO'n len trai nghi�m sau nay.
Pamela n6i co nh�n thay cac ong b6 ba m� Phap hay
dung "the pause" - tuc la dQ'i m9t chut tru&c khi dap l�i
phan @g cua tre. Con kh6c, con nga, con doi hoi gi... H9
khong ngay l�p tuc nhay den om con, d& con, hay dua cho
con cai con muon ma dQ'i m<)t chut. Lam nhu v�y, nguo-i
l&n se khong nuong chieu tre, tre khong du<;rc coi la mong
manh, la trung tam cua
vii
tf1=1 .
.
. Va ban than dua tre tr&
nen d�n di hO'Il, hQC each tl,l' giai quyet van de cua minh
thay
vi
chi can phan ung tieu Cl,fC hay doi hoi la dtrQ'C dap
ung. Ngu<ri Phap khong nghI rang each lam nhtr v�y khien
tre cam thay "no khong quan tr9ng" hay "khong dtrQ'C quan
tam" ... vi thl,l'c chat b6 m� v6n dap t'.rng day du nhCrng nhu
Hoc Tu cAc BA ME
TREN KHAP THE
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