cau can ban cua con, va bo m� muon con c6 dieu ki�n de
hqc each biet dQ'i, biet kiem che mong muon cua ban than,
biet ton tr9ng ngu&i khac ... HQ nghi rang khong phai dtra
tre Ctr CO tat ca la no se h�nh phuc, khong phai Ctr muon gi
deu dU'Q'C dap trng ngay la n6 se thoa man. Trai l�i, dtra tre
"luon c6 tat ca" se khong ngi.mg doi hoi hO'n nfra va khong
bao gier biet hai tong v&i nhfrng gi n6 da c6.
Cac ph1,1 huynh Phap d�c bi�t nghiem khi d�y con ve
cac quy tac trng xi'r. Ngu&i Phap luon bu<')c con phai biet n6i
"Bonjour", "Merci", "Sil YOUS plais" va biet don chao khach
chtr khong the thay khach den nha l�i lang di. Khi bo m�
dang n6i chuy�n v&i khach thi con cfing khong duQ'c t\f
y
xen vao cau chuy�n ma phai nho nh� xin phep.
NHIN SANG TRUNG
Quoc
Khong chi nhin sang each ngu&i Phap nuoi con,
ngu&i My ding c6 theri gian bi "chan d<')ng" vi each nuoi con
cua cac "m� ho" Trung Quoc. Khi co Amy Chua tung ra cu on
The battle hymn of a Tiger mother (Khuc tndmg ca cua m�
Ho),
cac
y
kien khen che t&i tap. Cac nha phan ti ch, cac ong
bo ba m� ngueri thi co gang "g�n d1,1c khO'i trong", ngu&i thi
n6i h9 khong du tir de mo ta het S\f sai lam cua ba m� nay.
Khi toi d9c cuon sach nay, l&i dau tien phai n6i la ba
m� nay gioi, viet C\fC k-y thu hut, toi dQC m<')t leo ba dem la
het. Tuy nhien, nhieu
h'.tc
d9c chi muon g�p sach l�i khong
d9c nfra, nhieu luc phai thot len: "Sao ma c6 ngu&i suy nghI
h�p the ha treri ?"
T�i sao?
Tru&c het, t\f Amy ding thira nh�n rang co la ngueri
c6 "lu&i ran d<)c", co c6 trai tim tot nhung nhfrng l&i n6i ra
